written by Sylvia Lehnen
Wood slabs go posh
Would I consider a wood slab for my new dining room table? No way, I thought, remembering the lumpy dust-catchers from my college days. And so I was shocked at the stunning, sleek, unique designs at Urban Hardwood in San Francisco. Alas – no matter what the wood, the prices are mammoth. But probably worth it if you can afford it – or just seeing them if you can’t.
Flash fiction: South-of-France stories
Sometimes life is a straight line; but rarely!
Such was the case when I was offered a painting commission in a three-story villa in a tiny village in the south of France. Carcés, just north of Marseille.
The adventure was about as squiggly as a line could get. If I had been there simply to paint — that would be one thing. There was too much life happening in the village of Carces to sit still. I’d like to share a few of my experiences here with you.
That’s how Niya’s stories start … Get ready for an enchanting journey. Pour yourself a glass of French wine. Settle in and meet the pizza man and a pink-haired bartender. And enjoy ancient country vines, a giant rabbit, and the king of the villa—a love-sick freckled dog.
Conjuring the Green Angel in Heidelberg
It was blamed for driving van Gogh to cut off his ear. It gets credit for inspiring Freud, Hemingway, and the painter Toulouse-Lautrec. It was considered so dangerous it was banned until 1990, and some brands are still not allowed into the United States. The hysteria surrounding “La Fee Verte,” as absynthe was called, compares to that around “Reefer Madness.” The Wormwood Society, an organization that provides scientific and historical information about absynthe, calls it the most maligned and misunderstood drink in history.
It tastes a little like ouzo and makes a fine-enough cocktail, with names like “In-Seine” and “Absynthe Minded.” But its real allure comes from the mystique dating back to the salons and cafes of turn-of-the century Europe, the escapades of the artists and rebels who made it part of their lives, and the rituals around its consumption.
It’s this dark allure that lives on in the little shop “Gruener Engel,” just a block from the main tourist street with its brightly lit chain stores. Inside, you feel like you’ve been dropped off by the magic carriage from Midnight in Paris. The lighting is dim, there are old-time wooden cabinets with rows of bottles, art-deco “fountains” for preparing the louche concoction, slotted silver spoons for dissolving the sugar; you almost feel you’re doing something forbidden just being there. But then a nice kid-next-door type will appear to tell you all about the history and ingredients of various brands—and the impostors.
When you’re ready to emerge back to the light of day and the 21st century, try Café Burkhart just down the street for a nice meal, great cake, charming surroundings, and another surprise—a back door to a museum.
Live (a little) like a monk in Heidelberg
With some 4 million tourists descending on Heidelberg each year, few know they can stay at a medieval monastery that’s a world away but still close to it all. Apparently the 6th-century Rule of St Benedict commands that monasteries should always have guests (who knew), so if life calls for a few soul-soothing days in quiet, idyllic surroundings, check it out. If you like, you can eat, pray, and work with the monks.
Expect simplicity – but not self denial. There’s a first-rate brewery and restaurant on the grounds after all. To find out about staying there for yourself or a small group, call +49 6221 895-122 or try this email address Gaestehaus@abtei-neuburg.de. When I called, I was told they could accommodate English-speaking guests. And yes, women are now welcome as well.
Stift Neuburg is also a great destination after a hike through the hills, with stunning views of the city and the Neckar river below. Kids can pet the animals and everyone can enjoy the grounds, the beer, and the restaurant’s treats, such as trout from the monastery’s own pond.
Local gifts and inspired fashion in the Mission
Last weekend my mom was bragging about the fact that she finished her Christmas shopping two weeks ago. Unfortunately, I didn’t inherit that “get it out of the way early” gene and I’m still stuck with a long lists of gifts to buy. I can’t bear the thought of the Union Square madness so this weekend I’ll be hitting up these Mission stores for unique, local gifts to put under the tree.
The Mission Statement: This designer co-op is the perfect one-stop-shop for everyone on your list. Delicious INNA Jams for foodies, vintage ties and Estrella Tadeo menswear, delicate Vanessa Gade jewelry, and fashion-forward women’s clothing by Sofie Olgaard.
Pot & Pantry: Forget Williams Sonoma and Sur La Table. Pot & Pantry carries new and gently used kitchenware at a great price. I’ve been eying a heart-shaped Le Creuset in there for a while now.
The Curiosity Shoppe: Another store with a wide range of gifts, especially for people who like things that are unique and a little quirky. (Crocheted Jellyfish Specimen, anyone?)
Mira Mira: I normally shop here for myself, but lately I’ve seen some great women’s gifts at Mira Mira like cute totes, fun socks, sparkly jewelry, and elegant scarves.
Unionmade: This would be my absolute favorite store in in San Francisco, if only they sold women’s clothing. However the emphasis on men’s clothing makes it the perfect place to shop for the traditionally difficult males on my list. Unionmade also have a great selection of Pendleton blankets and unisex accessories like scarves and Filson luggage.














